The truth about "getting links" "buying links" "having links" "building links" is that it's really all about connecting with people.
I've seen lots of internet marketing related websites giving instruction on how to automate link requests, write a "convincing" link request emails and so on. Sometimes it seems funny to me... wouldn't a personal approach, just like getting to know someone at a networking meeting be more genuine and effective?
When you are asking another site for a link from their site to your site, you should be thinking about more than the "vote" or search engine value of having links to your website. If you think about it the way the search engines think about it,
providing the most relevant results, you'll know which are the best sites to request links to your site. These are the sites for which your site adds value, makes sense and is the logical choice.
When you find a site like that... requesting a link from them is like asking for a referral. The easiest way to do that is to personally connect with the person at the other end. Write an email like you would introduce yourself in person. Who you are, what you like about their site, why you think your site might be a good resource for their visitors.
I almost never respond to automated link requests. They seem rude to me. But I have responded to those that are noticeably personal and truly addressed to me and my website.
Yes, it's a sometimes tedious, labor intensive job. No, there's no way to effectively automate it (though stay tuned for some spreadsheet add-ons that will make keeping track of all your link building a bit easier!).
But, linking is like networking... you are making connections with other websites the same way you make the best connections with other people; one person at a time, in a friendly, amiable way.
Try it, you'll be surprised at the results.
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